Hi, I’m April and I’m trying to lose weight as my new year’s resolution. There. It’s out there. Following my wedding in November, of which I worked very hard to get into shape, I decided to ‘reward’ myself for all of the hard work with a few Christmas cookies. And now, here I am in January trying to fix what I messed up. It’s not that it’s wrong to reward yourself with a tasty cookie here and there but it’s all about moderation, and self-control, which I don’t have.